Add evidence for the following diagnosis and traits for Dexter:
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| EVIDENCE OR CONTRADICTORY EVIDENCE OF TRAIT IN DEXTER | | | Glibness/superficial charm | - Donuts everyday for the office
- Playing along and returning flirting comments to a plethora of women, but not really meaning anything admittedly.
- His playful and sarcastic responses to Doakes very real threat.
- Most sociopaths are great salesmen and flirts, with passionate, animated speech patterns. Although friendly and mild mannered, Dexter is awkward and his speech is stilted. He refrains from flirting unless it's impossible to avoid, and is pretty bad at it.
| | Grandiose sense of self-worth | - As we can see from his ending statements from Season 1, he sees himself as a hero, not a murderer. (however, i agree)
- In "Born Free," after Dexter and fellow officers visit the scene of the Ice Truck Killer's murder/apparent suicide, he has a vision of being the heroic object of a parade of people cheering for him and holding up signs.
- Dexter often describes himself as "the only one" who can punish the serial killers he tracks, as an avenger.
- Before Brian, he felt no one would ever understand him--after he killed Brian, again he felt alone.
- Dexter wishes he were a hero and fantasizes that people would see him that way. But his inner-talk seems to indicate that he believes he is inherantly damaged, an evil monster, and someone that no one would understand or befriend if they knew his reality. He's very self-depreciating. Doesn't seem to have a grandiose sense of self-worth at all.
| | Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom | - He can't last for too long without being willed to commit another murder by his dark thoughts, the embodiment of "The Dark Passenger."
- As a teenager he was fascinated by his fathers heart beating rapidly in response to surprise/fear. Dexter had never felt that much emotions or excitement and felt the need to risk his own life just to replicate the sensation.
- The only thing that keeps him going is the thrill of the kill and his misguided morals that induce this need to kill.
- Although he admits to needing his monthly kill, Dexter's day-to-day routine is far less stimulating and serene than that of most sociopaths--who are out in bars, strip clubs, the boxing ring, etc.
| | Pathological lying | - On a daily basis since his first "lesson" with his father, Dexter has been lying to everyone he knows by pretending to respond with emotion or interest.
- The fib he tells about where he got the heroin and then says that he is an addict--allowing her to believe that he is a narcotics addict--when int truth his addiction is worse than heroin.
- Before Harry taught Dexter how to pretend and lie, Dexter was surprisingly honest. He readily admitted his actions and dark fantasies to Harry. He also tends to be as honest as possible in daily life. When he is throwing a corpse overboard, he tells Rita "I'm just dropping someone off." He never thinks of lying that his cell phone was out of range when he's engaged in a kill. He answers truthfully, against his own advantage when Rita asks if he slept with Lila. These things are atypical of the sociopath. They usually lie even without a motive.
| | Conning/manipulative | - Getting case files from the file clerk by plying her with donuts.
- He constantly manipulates Debra's investigations and theories, to avoid being implicated.
- He tampers with evidence
- He cons his victims as he stalks them (e.g. meeting up with Matt Chambers in a bar; going to sessions as a patient of Dr. Meridian.
- His entire relationship with Rita is based on his desire to appear to be a normal person.
- Breaking the airconditioning unit next to the tent where his victims bodies were being analyzed.
- Although Dexter manipulates situations, to protect himself, he doesn't tend to manipulate people as a general power play, or just to elicit devotion and emotion from them, as most sociopaths do.
| | Lack of remorse or guilt | - "I'm not sorry." "Neither am I."
- Dexter doesn't believe that what he is doing is actually wrong and so his intellect tells him that, even if he could feel guilt he would have no need to do so. He hides what he does not out of guilt but only, as he was trained, to not get caught so that he can continue.
- Lack of remorse or guilt has to be a prevailing attitude, not only specific to certain things in the subject's life. While many people would be grossed out and/or God / Karma fearing after killing all those people, how many would actually feel remorse for taking out brutal murderers? Although Dexter claims to have no feelings, remorse or guilt overall, the show makes a strong argument that he actually does feel those things, such as when Miguel kills an innocent Ellen Hunt because Dexter taught him how.
| | Shallow affect | - No emotion, always calm, doesn't get excited, doesn't cry.
- Watches "Terms of Endearment", widely considered one of the most heart wrenching movies made without reacting in the least.
- He has formed shallow "friendships" with his colleagues. (Here again I don't know how accurate this is - Dexter doesn't think that these relationships have much to them, however he does obviously take them into consideration and respects them.)
- Lives life by a rigid code -- actions aren't motivated or coordinated by his own conscience, but by what he thinks is correct from his childhood learnings.
- Most sociopaths have little inside, but are great fakers of emotional response and use it for grand manipulation and control over others. Dex's inability to know when and how to turn on the water works separates him from some of his counterparts.
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| | Callous/lack of empathy | - Dexter shows no remorse for his victims. This is most likely because they show no remorse for their victims (who are innocent, as far as he is concerned). Had they done so, Dex would have taken that into consideration before the stalk. He shows empathy for his victims' victims.
- Dexter has no instinct or desire to comfort his own emotionally devastated sister just moments after saving her from being murdered by her boyfriend. However he does seem concerned when they are together in the ambulance afterwards.
- Dexter in season one comes across as completely robotic and without empathy. As each season progresses though, he develops more and more emotion, attachment and empathy. Considering that sociopaths are considered untreatable, this begs the question of whether Dexter was ever really a sociopath, or simply a dissociated and disturbed man who was convinced that he's an incurable sociopath.
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| SCHIZOID DIAGNOSTIC CRITERIA | EVIDENCE OR CONTADICTORY EVIDENCE OF CRITERIA IN DEXTER | | Emotional coldness, detachment or reduced affection. | - Dexter consistently has trouble understanding human emotions, and claims not to feel them.
| | Limited capacity to express either positive or negative emotions towards others. | - When he does appear to have emotions, he seems to have trouble even recognizing them. It is also difficult for him to fake emotions. And he rarely even shows anger internally.
| | Consistent preference for solitary activities. | - Earlier in life, and in the first season, Dexter much preferred to be alone. Later, he starts to enjoy the company of Rita. He doesn't enjoy social groups.
| | Very few, if any, close friends or relationships, and a lack of desire for such. | - Early on, Dexter says he'd be happier as the only person on earth.
| | Indifference to either praise or criticism. | - Dexter doesn't seem to care, even on the inside, when Doakes or Quinn insult him. He cares if someone interferes with his activities, or reveals him, but he doesn't really care if they are mean and nasty to him.
| | Taking pleasure in few, if any, activities. | - Well, aside from blood spatter analysis and murder. :)
| | Indifference to social norms and conventions. | - Sees many human interactions and activities as strange and puzzling. Is often not even aware of how he should act or respond in certain situation.
| | Lack of desire for sexual experiences with another person. | - Dexter chose Rita because she wasn't interested in sex at first.
| | Preoccupation with fantasy and introspection. | - Dexter has quite a fantasy life, especially where Harry is concerned. And he engages in lots of introspection: "Am I a good person doing bad things, or a bad person doing good things?"
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ADDITIONAL SCHIZOID TRAITS
| EVIDENCE OR CONTRADICTORY EVIDENCE OF TRAIT IN DEXTER | Responsible in school, jobs, paying bills and other daily tasks
| - Finished school, sticks with one vocation, shows up on time, always answers his phone.
| | Neat and organized | - Anally neat and organized, though not OCD about it.
| | Moral unevenness - Can commit immoral crimes or transgressions, but judge others on a rigorous moral scale. | - Seems to be sincerely upset by murder that is "undeserved" and other transgressions that most people would consider unfair, but which are ironic considering his hobby.
| | Stilted speech and akward social skills; unable to read social cues, similar to the disposition of those with Asperger's. | - Dexter went down on Rita when she was watching "Terms of Endearment."
- His speech tends to be monotone and, when he is caught off guard, he verbally stumbles. Not suave at all.
| | Often possess a negative vice that is personalized and given a name | - Dexter names his desire to kill "The Dark Passenger."
| | Under stress, fantasies can become delusions or hallucinations | - Dexter's visions of Harry definitely seem to be hallucinations much of the time, and tend to appear during times of inner conflict and stress.
| | An aversion to sexual jokes, displays and inuendos | - Dexter doesn't enjoy or understand porn, Masuka's dirty jokes, the whole strip-bar and bachelor party rituals.
| | Perplexed and turned off by boisterous socializing and buddy-buddy behavior. | - "Just kill me now" when he learns he has to party all night at his bachelor party.
- Sarcastically, "Miguel--my new bestest friend," as he laments Miguels clingy attention.
| | Self-sufficient and uncomfortable relying on others for anything. | - Anything he can do himself, he does. Never asks Rita or Deb or coworkers to do anything for him, unless (as with Camilla in Records), he has no other choice.
| | Can appear to be a pushover, overly compliant, non assertive | - Does almost anything Rita asks him to; often puts himself in potential harm's way by being too compliant and not saying "no."
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