"I think a outwardly lovely woman could befriend Deb,she has a couple of children she's ever so privately "mistreating" and Dex picks up on it but not Deb because this woman is so illusively evil. He would have to do something-then perhaps adopt her children-as she would eventually be out of the picture.Don't know a woman like that-you'd be surprised!!! :)"

I am confused are you talking about Rita or Deb ???

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........compensate for his murders with religion and charity.
........At the heart of it all if his family hadn't died tragicly would he be a decent guy?
........For that matter what about dexter? Would love to hear some thoughts.

Well my thoughts, For what they are worth. Is that I do believe that if thier families had not died tragicly or more importantly If they had not witnessed the deaths they both may have done alright. Been Good guys etc. But they were involved with the death of thier family members and this is what changed them. Harry was Dex's mentor and he at least had a goal in mind to rid the world of bad guys while Trinity was just a nut case.
But I also feel there is much more to Trinity than what we have seen so far. There is more layers to that Onion.
I think he was instumental in the deaths of the sister, or even if it plays out like it has been said if he was not with her then at least with his Dad. I am sure he was the one that bludgeoned him to death. Maybe the mom was part of his either witnessing or his doing also.
Trinity may have gone over to the Dark Side by what he saw But I think He had a Dark side before that. If he is so sadistic to break his sons finger while holding his hand then what else is he capible of ??

He has beaten his wife and his daughter is frightened of her. His son is somewhat detatched and unrealistic with his comments abotu how wonderful everything is. I am sure Arthur is a very awful person and even if he had not been in the situation he was in he may have been that bad.
While Dexter was a witness to his mothers dismemberment and sitting in her blood for so many days he had a reason to become sort of wharped.

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