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Apocalypstickal
Apocalypstickal
Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 2:29 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 2:29 PM EST
This is something that has bothered me for a while since season one, and I still can't figure it out. Does anyone know why Harry adopted Dexter and left Brian Moser? 7  out of 8 found this valuable. Do you?    
Butcher_from_Cadiz
Butcher_from_Cadiz
1. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 3:12 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 3:12 PM EST
Erm, no idea it doesnt appear clearly... And since "Bynie" is dead i doubt they will bring that matter up. I have a theory though, since Brian was the oldest one, harry though it was a lost cause trying to raise someone who wittnessed the horrible death of his mother. And in the other hand Dexter was much younger, so Harry hopped he would forget this with time and love from the Morgan family.

Just a theory though..
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Apocalypstickal
Apocalypstickal
2. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 3:24 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 3:24 PM EST
yeah that is a good point. But there are people that still know about Harry adopting Dexter from the crime scene. Captian Matthews for instance was a good friend of Harry, and must have known just as much about Dexter's background as Harry did. I wonder why it didn't come into question and why they didn't realise Brian was Dexters biological brother... Perhaps it was just the writers leaving loose ends. 3  out of 3 found this valuable. Do you?    

blitheringidiot
3. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 4:01 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 4:01 PM EST
"since Brian was the oldest one, harry though it was a lost cause trying to raise someone who wittnessed the horrible death of his mother. And in the other hand Dexter was much younger, so Harry hopped he would forget this with time and love from the Morgan family.

Just a theory though.."
this is what brian says in an episode last season. something alone the lines of "i was a lost cause, you were young and could recover." brian was bitter about having to be institutionalized while dexter was not.

i think harry's motivation may have been because he KNEW dexter, because he'd been carrying on with his mom during the work day while dexter was present (viz interview room) whereas brian would have been at school all day and harry didn't know him well. another thought was that harry may have mistakenly thought that dexter WAS his bio son.
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Apocalypstickal
Apocalypstickal
4. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 4:56 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 4:56 PM EST
"this is what brian says in an episode last season. something alone the lines of "i was a lost cause, you were young and could recover." brian was bitter about having to be institutionalized while dexter was not.

i think harry's motivation may have been because he KNEW dexter, because he'd been carrying on with his mom during the work day while dexter was present (viz interview room) whereas brian would have been at school all day and harry didn't know him well. another thought was that harry may have mistakenly thought that dexter WAS his bio son."
Oh yeah I remember now! Dexter found out that Harry knew his mother a lot more than Harry had ever told Dexter, and that Harry encouraged his mom to go on with the Drug deal even though she was hesitant. He was so desperate to get evidence on those dealers... he must have taken Dexter because he felt responsible. But still.. I don't know how he could only take one? To me Harry has a lot of his own dark horses hidden in a closet, that could still come out in the show. Perhaps this all leads to why he felt suicidal.
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blitheringidiot
5. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 9:34 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 9:34 PM EST
<<<I don't know how he could only take one<<<

apoc, i think that stinks, too. i personally would have adopted both. one feels for brian.

but remember harry and his wife only had one kid after they adopted dexter....one kid is a statement of some kind. overwhelmed with the burden maybe?
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dexgal
dexgal
6. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 9:47 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 9:47 PM EST
"<<<I don't know how he could only take one<<<

apoc, i think that stinks, too. i personally would have adopted both. one feels for brian.

but remember harry and his wife only had one kid after they adopted dexter....one kid is a statement of some kind. overwhelmed with the burden maybe?"
I know, I still keep thinking that Harry saw Brian doing something so horrible in the car that he couldn't even consider taking him in...
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carrielu
7. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 11:52 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 4 2007, 11:52 PM EST
I have a hunch that we will find out that Harry is Dexter's true biological father. He was carrying on with his biological mother afterall . . . and then he felt compelled to adopt him and not his brother. But as I'm writing this, I'm remembering that Dexter donated blood to his biological father as a child so hmmmm. . . . 1  out of 1 found this valuable. Do you?    

Enderdejorand
8. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 6 2007, 7:27 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 6 2007, 7:27 PM EST
Harry is -definitely- not his bio dad... The entire episode of Father Knows Best was about Dexter's real dad. Most of it could be blown off as Brian just assuming they had the same father, but then what about when Dexter needed the rare blood type? Only Dexter's real dad had the blood type that Dexter needed, and then Harry gave the card to him after he gave Dexter the blood. If it was Harry's blood type or anything, Harry would not have given dexter's real dad the card. Do you find this valuable?    
dexgal
dexgal
9. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 6 2007, 7:52 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 6 2007, 7:52 PM EST
But could Harry have been Brian's dad (I know far-fetched) Do you find this valuable?    

LH-C
10. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 19 2007, 3:22 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 19 2007, 3:22 PM EST
Wow, someone else has roughly the same theory as I do. My take on it is that Harry knew both Dexter and Brian would be really screwed up, and that he and his wife would only be able to handle one of them, namely Dexter, simply because he was younger.

I don't think Harry is Brian's dad either.
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petro-111
11. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Feb 19 2008, 3:05 AM EST | Post edited: Feb 19 2008, 3:05 AM EST
I think we will find out Harry and Dexter's mom were having an affair and Harry is Dexter's real father.Harry having only one child at home 'Deb" a girl,He was not about to let the system raise his only son. Do you find this valuable?    

sCKZumm
12. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Feb 23 2008, 5:31 PM EST | Post edited: Feb 23 2008, 5:31 PM EST
Yeah but they did a DNA test. Joe was clearly Dexter's father. Do you find this valuable?    
type-o-negative
type-o-negative
13. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Feb 23 2008, 9:04 PM EST | Post edited: Feb 23 2008, 9:04 PM EST
why would dexters DNA match Joe Driscals then? Do you find this valuable?    

petro-111
14. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Feb 23 2008, 9:39 PM EST | Post edited: Feb 23 2008, 9:39 PM EST
Dex's mom may have told Harry that he was Dexter's real father,and may-be Harry couldn't take a chance that Dex wasn't his. Do you find this valuable?    

DarklyWatching
15. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Feb 24 2008, 5:09 AM EST | Post edited: Feb 24 2008, 5:09 AM EST
Ah but Dan and I only have one kid too, not through lack of trying or want of another, sometimes it just happens that way.

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DarklyWatching
16. RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Feb 24 2008, 5:12 AM EST | Post edited: Feb 24 2008, 5:12 AM EST
"Ah but Dan and I only have one kid too, not through lack of trying or want of another, sometimes it just happens that way.

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Sorry, this was a direct reply to:

"RE: Why did Harry only adopt Dexter?
Dec 4 2007, 9:34 PM EST
<<<I don't know how he could only take one<<<

apoc, i think that stinks, too. i personally would have adopted both. one feels for brian.

but remember harry and his wife only had one kid after they adopted dexter....one kid is a statement of some kind. overwhelmed with the burden maybe?"
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